IP0603 Patriarchy, Gender-Based Violence, and the Architecture of Fear in South Africa

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Content Note: This episode discusses gender-based violence, rape culture, and femicide. Please take care of yourself while listening.

South Africa doesn’t just have a “violence problem.” It has a patriarchy problem.

In this episode, Aurora unpacks how gender-based violence is sustained — not only through individual perpetrators, but through systems: colonial legacies, racial capitalism, religious discourse, media narratives, workplace hierarchies, and everyday gender socialisation.

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⏳ Chapter Timestamps

| 00:00:00 Content note 
| 00:00:24 Pre-credit teaser 
| 00:02:08 Land acknowledgement
| 00:02:36 Title credits: Patriarchy, gender-based violence, and the architecture of fear in South Africa 
| 00:03:00 Welcome and introduction
| 00:04:53 Patriarchy as a system, not a personality flaw
| 00:06:14 “#MenAreTrash” and why “#NotAllMen” misses the point
| 00:08:58 Toxic gendering starts early — and it stays loyal 
| 00:11:05 Colonial patriarchy vs African patriarchy: a false binary
| 00:14:28 Calling out offenders: Justice, risk, and survival
| 00:17:37 Religion: Tool of control or site of resistance? 
| 00:24:16 Patriarchal institutions and structures
| 00:31:34 Media, fear, and the psychology of spectacle 
| 00:35:11 GBV as a racial and class phenomenon 
| 00:39:08 What do we do with all this?
| 00:43:00 End credits

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